Sexual pressure points, trigger points or erogenous zones
Most
all trigger points are in relation to male and female. Some are more partial to certain areas when
being aroused. As a partner it is your
job to experiment and get their precise spots into your sexual routine. Most likely you will have to use several
trigger points at the same time to stimulate your partner. Woman are in higher correlation to this statement
but many men also correlate to this rule.
Erogenous zones:
Areas on the skin which cause higher arousal due to sensitivity and
cause sexual fantasies or arousal. They
have a higher density of nerve endings which help increase the sensitivity and
cause aroused pleasure (when stimulated properly). Everyone has them but they vary between each
person. There are nonspecific zones and
specific zones.
Nonspecific zones: The
skin is similar to normal haired skin, has the normal density of nerves and
hair follicles. Common spots include: mouth,
scalp, neck, chest, abdomen, navel,
tailbone, arms, armpits, fingers, legs, feet, and toes.
Specific zones:
direct sexual areas. Genitals,
foreskin, clitoris, vulva and perianal skin, lips of vagina, anus, and main places
where direct orgasms can originate from.
There are places on the body that are such hot spots, they
are loaded with supersensitive nerve endings; which will instantly rev someone
up when they are stimulated.
Head: Temples, in-between the eyebrows, eyelids, lips, and
ears. The head and scalp have mass density of nerve endings, and lightly massaging
them can trigger dopamine and serotonin (feel-good hormones). Apply
pressure for 30 seconds on the temples and forehead, this will relieve tension
and increase sexual excitement. Use this
when movement is slow and female is on
top or in missionary position. When
eyelids are closed slowly run your fingers or gently kiss across them. When eyes are closed it puts the submissive
out of control and the dominating in control, causing the sexual fantasies to
increase and pleasure more desirable. While kissing slowly suck on the outside
bottom lip, while using the tip of your tongue to stroke up and down and still
keeping his lower lip inside yours (mainly an arousal for men). Nibbling on this section of the lip also
helps. Ears have points of sexual desire
(also called Bosch point and libido point) and points for sexual compulsion
(also known as Jerome point, or the point of sexual suppression). Gently massaging with the thumb and the
forefinger, to stimulate the Bosch point (the section closer to the face on the
outer part of the ear) and the Jerome point (the outer part of the ear that is
free from the head).
Neck: Front of the neck, right below the Adams apple. kissing this area ever so softly and slowly
adding your tongue to lick around this area and heighten sexual arousal. Back of the neck where the spine meets the
skull. Use your fingertips for 30
seconds and gradually increase pressure.
Massage the back of the neck with your thumbs when doing it doggy
style. Massage the area with your index
and middle fingers when in missionary or with her on top. You can also stimulate this area on a female
during oral sex. Shoulder G-spot is the
area in the middle of the tendons on either side of her neck. You can release tension by kneading the area
slowly but with little force. Do this
during missionary, doggy style or while she is on top. When tension is release it helps relax the
person and enforce sexual arousal.
Chest: Specifically
the breast and nipples and are common in male and females. Mostly woman are affected by this but some
males enjoy the soft kisses and licking of their nipples. Some experts have found that males nipples
might be more sensitive than thought.
Males might be shocked to the arousal they encounter when their partner travels
to this territory. Try sucking on an ice
cube before beginning to help intensify this arousal by supercharging the
cluster of nerve endings in the nipple.
In the center of the female breast bone right between the nipples, you
can gently press with your thumbs; to promote relaxation and ease tension. Do this when performing missionary and
sucking on her breasts/nipples.
Abdominal: building
up sexual tension by going from the genitals to the abdominal will tantalize
your partner, making them moan for more.
There are a couple of spots on the abdominal that you can trigger. measure about three or four fingers below her
navel right above the bladder area (the bladder is above the vaginal bone),
press it gently with about three fingers; this spot is ever so sensitive. Do this while spooning, oral sex, or
missionary with her legs in the air. The
back has a spot that is located mid to
lower back (about at elbow level) two fingers away from spine on either
side. When applying firm pressure for
about two minutes using your thumb to massage the area slowly during doggy
style, or two fingers pressing against it while she is on top. Where the legs meet near the hipbone there is
an area that is extremely ticklish and also sexually sensitive. Use the heel of your hand and apply pressure
to relieve sexual tension. Nicely used
during foreplay but greatly used during the cookie eating process! HOLLA
Legs: slowly moving
your fingers up and down the inner thigh can drive people crazy. It's a great way to get someone aroused. Although the back of the knee is a tickle
spot it also has a spot located between the two ligaments. Use your index and middle fingers to gently
apply pressure or gently kissing this area, but doing this with firm grip. This gives the recipient a more relaxed feel
and can cause an easy arousal. Best used
when doing doggy style, when she is on top, and with her legs on your
shoulders.
Wrist: There is a large crease on the inside of the wrist,
line up your pinky and apply two fingers for 30 seconds to alleviate tension;
do this while she is on top and both wrist if you like.
Feet: The feet are a
known sexual pressure point. Close to
the middle of the bottom of the foot between the heel and the ball of the
foot. Give a firm and deep pressure and
repeat this about ten times. This is
best used during foreplay and can be tried during missionary with legs in the
air. There is a spot on the ankle
halfway between the heel and ankle bone.
This is a pressure point that is known to be linked to the sex
organs. Use this pressure point during
reverse cowgirl. When your man is
getting close to orgasm put pressure there with your fingertips.
Vagina: The clitoris is a very sensitive spot on the female
body, it has a very high density of nerve endings (literally hundreds of
thousands) which makes it one of the most aroused part of the female body. Clitoral stimulation is one of the only way
some woman climax. Always start off slow
when you are stimulating the clitoris (some men just start out rough, causing
it to hurt rather than be pleasurable) than gradually work your way rougher and
rougher until you hear her scream. The
G-Spot is another sensual spot on the woman.
This is located about two inches inside the vagina. This can be a harder orgasm than the clitoris
but some woman prefer the G-spot orgasm over the other. It can produce a most deeper orgasm the
squirting kind. Doing missionary with
her legs in the air while hugging them and his body at a 90 degree angle is one
of the easiest ways to penetrate the G-spot.
The Para-cervical ring (also known as the A-spot, fornix or deep spot)
is at the very back of the vagina. This can cause a deep vaginal orgasm and is
a very powerful trigger point. MEN, when
you can feel the vagina muscles contract you know you have hit the deep
spot. This can produce the most intense
orgasm is reached but is also the hardest of the three.
